Je suis de retour.......I am Back!

I just went mute for a short while. I know I know I have neglected the blog for so long, well I missed you too. J I hope to pick up momentum very soon.

 

Keep reading, I promise to write more:-)

My Love,

 

Emma K!

....All Made Up.......

In my earlier posts,  did I  mention i love make-up? Well,  I do. I really do.....

Recently, I tried playing around with my face:-)

Thank God It's Friday!

The week is OVER. ........and Yes, I am so excited! Its been a long one for me. My desk is still full but, what the heck! I gotta put my hair down and unwind....

Its November( my birthday month) and I love this time of the year.. I get to wear the pretty sundresses, get ready for my birthday, get ready for x-mas and start all the planning:-))

This weekend, will be different, Ethan gets a new nanny( hoping for an easy transition)

I also need to start planning for x-mas. Making all the necessary reservations and bookings. Ken thinks am always ahead of my-self but i just think am a girl who loves to have a  plan.

It's been a good week though, despite the load  of work, i am happy to be alive. I start my weekend in  next hour. Will definitely let you in on what i did:-)

Have a nice weekend ahead:-)

Love Emma K

..Life and Love Journey

We celebrate two years today in this, our journey of love. As I think back to that gorgeous day I try and remember the thoughts that ran through my mind, the smiles and goofy grins, the happy tears, the singing, the dancing and the blessing that made us one. It was a beautiful day. The first of a thousand steps we have taken together. We've laughed and loved, grown up and apart and back together again. We've fought on love's battlefield and on her shores brought into this world the most precious expression of our life's love... And over and over the record that's played...sometimes blaringly loud, sometimes faintly in the background has been love. Love. Love. Happy anniversary babe...here's to 99 more:) I love you Ken

My Daily Bread

Lately, I have had some very  tough conversations with myself ..... Especially regarding my weight! Yes, I know these are weighty issues that girls do not like going public about.
I am an African woman in all contexts but that does not gurantee size 16!
So i decided to journal everything I eat...and OMG! at the end of the day, I thought, NO EMMA, NO!!!

My mama tells me that I loved good food...When my sister Martha's did not feel like her Lunch, she would ask me to please clear her plate and in turn she would do me a favour... That was fine with me...
31 years later, I have started to ask myself some very tough questions. I want to be able to cheer Ethan during his school sports day, I want to be able to swim with him over the holidays, I want to show him that veggies are actually tasty and healthy, I want to be an example to him.

My gym instructor loves my determination. He says I need to loose 20 kilograms to get to my ideal BMI, I know I can. Only if I cut down on my calorie intake and run harder on the trademail. So far, I am loving it.
I like my  bread with butter, its yummy! but I really need to cut on that...really!

I guess that is what being healthy is all about, letting go of all the yummy, unhealthy things that we love to indulge in... the ice- cream, the cheesy pizza, and the sizzling steak with fries...

I will keep you posted on my progress, keep reading



My love,

Emma K

..Now.....

...I feel like my life is at the crossroad...could it be the fear of the fact that I do not know if I  will move to Nairobi as desired?
I look back in my life and get out my dream board..... I have to make major decisions regrading my life, Ethan is Almost 2( his actually 15 months) and he needs to be settled in Nairobi.
Is a job there forthcoming? Am I casting my net deep enough?  Am I making the right connections?
I ask myself a lot of what  questions, I dream, I wish, I want, only if..... For now, I am making the best of what I have. Trying to live my life, and to have fun while at it.....
...what if i did not take my job in Mombasa 4 years ago......
what if I studied HR instead of Communications?
...What If I worked in Windhoek and never relocated back to Kenya......
Ken tells me no situation is permanent, I know this too shall pass....

My love,

Emma K!

MY LIFE'S LESSONS

I love to read / listen to Robin Sharma. He is a great speaker......he teaches on Business success, life, building relationships, fun and everything else.  He says  he is NO guru but I think he is. 

He has taught me great lessons as i go through this journey - LIFE.


When I completed my degree in Communication and Industrial Psychology, I pictured myself anchoring  the 9 o'clock bulletin as an Anchor. I returned to Kenya with great expectations of taking on the Media Industry.


Fast forward to today,8 years later I am not in a studio anchoring the bulletin. I am in an office, managing the people development docket in the Human Resources Department. I love my job! it gives me great satisfaction....and I like to think,   I am now  wiser and  a better person.... I have made and broken friends and relationships, grown networks and learnt a few things along the way................. 


1. Your work ethic will speak for you. I'm a hard worker. I work hard and play harder... I have learnt how  to set aside time to  smell the flowers, I put 100% into whatever I do. I learned to deliver beyond expectations very early on in my career, because that's what makes you exemplary. 


2. Build your networks. I learnt that i should not be forgettable, much later on in my career, How I wish  I  had known earlier how to build networks. I once flew with former Safaricom, CEO,  Micheal Joseph on a plane to Mombasa. I met him in the waiting  lobby, I wish i had walked up to him and chat him up. Life presents small windows of opportunities. Once they shut, they may never open again.....
Carry your business card, know how to catch the  possible talking points with those you meet...whether you're off to a cocktail party or lunch .


3. Be Knowledgeble. Read, a lot. Get to know what's happening in the world that we live in... Know what's news in America,  Egypt, In Syria and around the corner.....news of global importance are a great points to start a conversation... make an impression. You never know who'll be paying attention.Read, read , read.... build a library and you will be SMART!


4. Work towards personal growth:  If I lost everything today, my job, my house, my car, and everything else I own, I have a plan...... I will start from scratch and will rebuild what i had...... I may grow vegetables on my little garden, sell second hand clothes; I may sell cakes, or create something  for sale. I have learned to be confident in my passion for things outside my career that can still hold me up if everything else fell apart. 


5. Have a mentor. When you're busy building and working towards getting to the top, you need a mentor! Someone who will hold your VISION BOARD and help you spell everything out. Someone tho will push  you towards your dreams........your greatness!!. It's easy to get lost in the current, but you need to keep  focus on where you want to be tomorrow. 


6. Set your goals. I read somewhere that resolutions don't create success, habit does. I have a long list of goals that I look at least once a day. I have written them down and I have reminders that keep me on toes. Know why you need to wake up every morning........


7.I keep learning every day, but the most important thing is to keep amazing people around you. People that will challenge you to be better, that will laugh and cry with you, but who know the value of tough love. You cannot win when you are alone. I have learned that I am nothing without my family, my friends and GOD. 


I am a work in progress..... am not there yet, but i know i will ...


Much Love,


Emma K!